The O'Connell Blog

Blogs about life and death and how we can help.

Older woman sitting alone on her couch at home, resting her head on her hand while grieving the loss of a loved one
By Michael O'Connell • September 2, 2026
"It is what it is" may be a common phrase, but is it helpful? Mike O'Connell shares why presence and compassion matter more than easy answers when grieving.
Family gathering after a funeral
By Michael O'Connell • July 27, 2026
Family conflict doesn't always begin after a death. Learn why loss often reveals years of unresolved hurt and how understanding grief can lead to compassion.
Family supporting one another after a funeral
By Michael O'Connell • July 2, 2026
Why doesn't everyone grieve the same way? Learn why grief looks different for every person and why appearances can be misleading.
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By Michael O'Connell • June 1, 2026
It may surprise you what funeral directors really do. Learn how their role goes far beyond death care into guidance, planning, and support.
By Michael O'Connell • May 1, 2026
We see death everywhere, but rarely understand it. Learn how exposure to trauma impacts children, adults, and how we process grief.
funeral rule general price list
By Michael O'Connell • April 1, 2026
There’s a law that protects families when planning a funeral. Learn how the Funeral Rule and General Price List give you control and transparency.
Death Is Not a Single Moment in Time; It Is a Journey
By Michael O'Connell • February 24, 2026
Death is not a single moment but a journey. Learn why honoring the final season of life helps families heal with intention.
Medicare after death
By Michael O'Connell • December 31, 2025
Learn what happens to Medicare, Medigap, and Social Security when a loved one passes away. Get answers on refunds, coverage, and survivor benefits.
A Burning Question: How Does Cremation Work?
By Michael O'Connell • November 25, 2025
Learn how cremation works, from temperatures and timing to safeguards, identification procedures, and what remains afterward. Understand the ethical standards and care provided throughout the process.
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By Michael O'Connell • November 24, 2025
Mike & Emma open up about what it means to serve families through life's most difficult moments, and how their family's calling has shaped who they are today.
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