The answer is a resounding YES!
At O’Connell’s, we uphold the highest level of integrity when it comes to caring for the deceased. I have said this countless times: “We would like a full set of clothing, including a full set of undergarments, as if they were walking into their own funeral.”
Surprisingly, we still receive follow-up questions like, “Okay, but you don’t need pants, do you?” The answer remains the same—yes, a full set means a full set.
We treat every individual in our care with dignity, ensuring they are fully dressed. Years ago, some funeral homes even sold clothing as part of their services, but this was mostly based on location. As far back as I can remember, O’Connell’s has never sold clothing.
However, we do provide new sets of undergarments, t-shirts, and socks for families who may not have these items for their loved ones.
When someone moves into a nursing home, they often downsize their wardrobe, and in many cases, they spend their final days in a hospital gown. Because of this, we make sure that everyone entrusted to us is dressed completely and respectfully.
What If Families Don’t Have the Right Clothing?
If a family does not have what they feel is appropriate clothing for their loved one, and they lack the funds to purchase new attire, we step in to help. In some cases, we have even provided clothing or suits of our own to ensure that their loved one is dressed with dignity.
Private Viewings Before Cremation
For families who opt for a private viewing before cremation, their loved one can also be dressed. A private viewing does not require embalming or the purchase of a casket, but it does allow family members a chance to say goodbye. Even in these cases, a full set of clothing is preferred.
The Myth of Cutting Clothes
I want to address a common myth: “Do funeral homes cut clothing?” At O’Connell’s, we do not.
Cutting clothes is lazy and, frankly, unethical. Anyone who has worked with us knows that this is simply not an accepted practice.
A viewing can be an incredibly healing and meaningful experience for families. We take great pride in ensuring that each individual is treated with the utmost respect by dressing them fully and maintaining their dignity throughout the process.
Blog written by Mike O’Connell
O’Connell Family Funeral Homes
