When a funeral home arrives to take a loved one into their care—whether from home, hospice, or a nursing facility—it can be an emotional and overwhelming moment. 



For many, this is when reality sets in, marking the finality of their loved one’s passing. The thought that this may be the last time they see them can bring a wave of emotions.

When we transfer a loved one into our care, we do so with deep sensitivity to the surroundings, the family present, and the dignity of the deceased. 

Healthcare professionals often advise families that they may not want to be present during this transition, understanding how difficult it can be. However, choosing to be part of this moment, if one feels comfortable, can provide profound meaning and healing.

While we do not need assistance in the transfer process, we gently encourage families to participate if they wish. We take the time to explain the process and address any concerns, ensuring that no one feels pressured or uncomfortable. 

For those who decide to help, it can be a deeply personal way to honor their loved one.

The Healing Power of Helping
 

Participating in a loved one’s transfer can be a meaningful step in the grieving process. It can:

• Acknowledge the reality of the loss
• Serve as a final act of love
• Provide a sense of purpose
• Strengthen family bonds
• Begin the path to healing

This moment is deeply personal, and there is no right or wrong choice. Whether a family chooses to be present or not, we are here to guide them with care, compassion, and respect.

Sincerely,
 

Mike O’Connell
O’Connell Family Funeral Homes